Let's start over......
You need to let them have some hard times and tough it out on their own. All part of the growing and learning, but there will be those special times, when help is necessary. Especially when a grandchild is in need and not going to get it without some help.
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Jim
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They're good kids, they'll be fine. I'm going to help when needed, but my wife is the one struggling with her daughter not being around. :o She'll get over it.
She IS still around! A block away? Ours went from our house to 4 1/2 hours away. Took an adjustment.
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