Let's start over......
You arent married yet but there are some things that you just dont hide from you wife and this isnt something you hide. That and I just told her yesterday afternoon that I am going to a gun show on Friday and something might follow me home from the show.
Im not married no, but if you are the bread earner in the family, and have a little cushion why not enjoy the money you work hard to earn. Im not really trying to stir things up. My GF already knows that i spend alot of my extra money on my truck and she has learned to cope with that. I know i cant do this the rest of my life, but i sure am having fun