Your opinions on which wheel size please.....
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either one would be a great choice. neither one will stick out to much. one factor to consider is that tires for the 18's are considerably more expensive. but if you plan to go with a wider tire say 305 mm wide or more they will fit better on a 8.5 inch wide rim than a 8 inch wide rim. I do not know what tires you plan to run but you should price them in the 17"s and the 18"s to see the price differance before buying. I myself am switching from 17"s to 18"s just becous I could not find a rim I liked in 17". but now I am paying considerably more for tires. but if price of tires is not an issue I would say either one would be a great choice.
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Also this is my personal opinion. But I think any tire smaller than 33" will look better on a 17 than on a 18 inch rim. If you are getting a tire 33" or larger the 18's will look fine in my opinion. I just do not like that low profile tire look on a truck. but that is my personal taste. I guess it just depends on what you like.