20's for 18's
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No reason you cannot swap 18's for the stock 20's. With your '09, you also got the benefit of the extra leaf spring with the 20" tires. Your rear suspension is the same as a '10 with the heavy duty package (even though your GVWR is still shown as 7200 on the sticker). Ford did not do this on the '10, not sure about the '11.
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